{"id":175,"date":"2011-08-21T14:30:05","date_gmt":"2011-08-21T14:30:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/?p=175"},"modified":"2011-08-21T14:52:58","modified_gmt":"2011-08-21T14:52:58","slug":"beauty-in-the-eyes-of-a-6-year-old","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/?p=175","title":{"rendered":"Beauty through the eye&#8217;s of a 6 year old."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So it&#8217;s early, I&#8217;m trolling the &#8216;net\u00a0<del>avoiding\u00a0housework <\/del>\u00a0looking for things for a project I have on the go at the moment. \u00a0Then I\u00a0stumbled\u00a0upon this on someone&#8217;s tumblr.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/sad-girl-6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-176\" title=\"sad girl 6\" src=\"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/sad-girl-6.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/sad-girl-6.jpg 500w, http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/sad-girl-6-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;This was written by a little 6 year old girl. I babysit her and her two sisters &#8211; Rebecca and Mia, and before they go to bed they all sit down and write little prayers to God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>This was the one that Hollie wrote last time, and it absolutely\u00a0<strong>broke my heart<\/strong>.\u00a0I mean, she\u2019s six years old and she thinks she\u2019s not beautiful. That\u2019s not right.\u00a0But she\u00a0is\u00a0beautiful,\u00a0<strong>absolutely gorgeous<\/strong>. She\u2019s got golden blonde hair, bright green eyes and a smile so beautiful that you melt a little inside when you see it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>When their mum got home, I showed her Hollie\u2019s prayer, and she was devastated. She\u2019s a nurse so she\u2019s seen a lot of horrible things, but I have never seen her like that. And so I had to do something.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If you\u2019re reading this, and if you have the slightest bit of a heart,\u00a0<strong>please reblog this<\/strong>, so that I can prove to Hollie that she\u00a0<strong>is\u00a0<\/strong>beautiful, and that she is so special, and that God made her exactly the way she is because He knows that He made her\u00a0<strong>perfect<\/strong>. Please give this beautiful little girl the confidence she deserves.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now I&#8217;m not re-blogging this on tumblr. because I don&#8217;t have an account and likely can&#8217;t be bothered to get one. \u00a0Nor do I think that re-blogging this will be\u00a0beneficial to anyone, simply because true faith in yourself comes from within. \u00a0As I am fond of saying: &#8220;<em>A million people in this world could believe in you and it doesn&#8217;t mean a damn thing until you <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>believe in yourself<\/strong><\/span>.<\/em>&#8221;\u00a0 \u00a0However this touched me on a different kind of level. \u00a0This child is 6. \u00a0SIX years old and is asking God to make her\u00a0beautiful. \u00a0This reminds me of a conversation I had with a friend of mine a few years back when her young daughter asked her to go on a diet because some kid in kindergarten said she was fat.<\/p>\n<p>Is this how fucked up our society has become? \u00a0I know scores of adults who have image issues, I think we all do to a certain point. \u00a0However it&#8217;s that much <em>more<\/em> disturbing when it&#8217;s coming from the mouth of a child. \u00a0Children are our future, children are <em>supposed<\/em> to be innocent and pure. \u00a0What kind of society are we that it has such a level of\u00a0toxic image issues\u00a0already on the horizon?<\/p>\n<p>Something to think about.<\/p>\n<p>-Steph<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So it&#8217;s early, I&#8217;m trolling the &#8216;net\u00a0avoiding\u00a0housework \u00a0looking for things for a project I have on the go at the moment. \u00a0Then I\u00a0stumbled\u00a0upon this on someone&#8217;s tumblr. &#8220;This was written<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[26,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-175","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-eatingimage-disorders","category-stop-the-hate"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=175"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":178,"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175\/revisions\/178"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=175"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=175"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/notafraidofyourpain.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=175"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}